Im sharing a personal example of an experience that occurred for our family around loving guidance and modelling of desired behaviours in a gentle way for highly sensitive kids.
Recently we attended this incredible concert. It was performed by Kosmic Evolution. Check out their channel! They create and perform music about awakening and ascension. Its beautiful music performed by incredible people.
So during the concert Miss 5 starts to really express herself and get into the music. She begins to jump around and of course dancing is encouraged. There are designated areas for dancing and it is a live concert and is being recorded and beamed out LIVE across the planet. Pretty awesome huh!
There are some guidelines around where to sit, where to dance and that kind of thing. So miss 5 begins to become really enthusiastic! She does LOVE the music and has heard it before many times. The music is so uplifting and awakening and has a high vibration so being sensitive Miss 5 also becomes quite excited, imagine her exhilarated with all of that high frequency energy. We all were of course, but we’re not 5!
So She is jumping and dancing around and this quickly escalates into more exuberant jumping around. Then she starts to throw cushions around – it started as a semi tame game of “one person throws the cushion to the other person and then they throw it back”. But this quickly escalates into all the kids burying each other under the cushions and then throwing them off as they escape the cushion mountain. Ahhh! They thought it was awesome!
So by this stage Miss 5 has pretty much lost her ability to self calm, or even be very present. Its just all wild fun, expression, jumping, enthusiastic dancing, and throwing cushions around.
So she’s dancing pretty crazily and then throws a cushion that lands onto the key pad and some of the other equipment inside the booth where the lovely technician is looking after the LIVE stream and the rest of the tech stuff for the concert. So this rouge cushion could of easily hit one of the buttons that controls the camera’s, sound, or impacted the live streaming.
Luckily the cushion didn’t hit any buttons and the concert finished and we all had an amazing time.
So because Miss 5 is very sensitive and gifted I really wanted to approach this in a different way. She is very independent and is quite head strong and will often become defiant if someone tells her she can’t do something. Hands up who has a high frequency child like that????
A softer, kinder approach is really how Im choosing to relate within my family. So we played a game together called ‘concerts’ – where we created a stage that we decorated with sparkles, and glitter and beads and material, and we dressed up her dolls to be the performers in the concert, there was a smaller little girl doll that represented her as well, she choose all the clothes and the costumes, etc
So we had number 1 concert that was just for Miss 5, so she could choose what happened to all the people, the music played, where they were, how they danced etc. So whatever she wanted to happen, happened in her concert. So she was the singer and she was in charge, did all the things she wanted to do. It was great and she loved it.
Then we had concert number 2. So we created a stage for it, decorated it and had the performers on the stage and her dancing in the designated area dancing nicely, and staying present and centered. We discussed how to do that, talked about breathing and being aware of our bodies and our selves. All in a very loving way. All the while playing it out through the dolls. So no cushion throwing. As we play ‘concerts’ and talk, its all level calm and Im sending her love and approval and really creating a awake and safe space.
We will continue to play ‘concerts’ and im sure it will develop naturally as we go. At the end of this month there is another LIVE concert, so there is plenty of time for her to fully understand this and integrate this higher self awareness. Including time for her pathway to continue to develop.
So its all done in a very gentle way, in a loving way. To explain and get information across to any child so they can understand in a positive way. In a way these younger kids can understand, experience through play and loving relating and connection.
Now I do want to note here that Ive done quite a lot of awakening work myself. Ive embraced and resolved a lot of my own buried or suppressed material and that makes it easier to be and relate in this way. And I totally encourage every parent to do this also. It is so good for many reasons.
This little blog is an example of how we like to support the kids with learning, and behaviour and guiding their expression. So instead of traditional discipline, or being harsh and having them feel like they’ve done something ‘wrong’.
We go about it in a much kinder way and in a way that they are really going to fathom and understand on their level and continue to understand. To begin to develop self awareness and be able to become present and start to manage them selves as they grow.
Especially these high frequency kids, they have come in already very awake, gifted and sensitive. They are wanting to awaken just as much as we do.
So I wanted to share a little about how we do things and I’d really love to have you to connect with us in our Awakening families group. We will be sharing regular blogs and other posts that we hope you find helpful in this time of awakening. Members are welcome to post and share openly there too.
Thank you for reading.
Sending Bright Love from our awakening family to yours.
Love is the answer ❤